Millennials are one of America’s largest generation. At the same time, they are also the generation that is most rapidly leaving the church. And while it’s not this way for every congregation, many churches are facing tension from their young adults. They aren’t in youth group anymore, but are also not fully established in their careers or families. So what are some ways to genuinely reach this age group who is unsure if church is really for them?

Challenge them. Millennials are the most educated generation in history, and yet are often labeled as lazy, entitled, and unmotivated. Because of this, churches may try to sugar coat hard topics. At this stage in their life, growth is happening in nearly every area imaginable. From graduating college to building families, they are changing and learning from their experiences. Spiritual growth should be no exception and this is where the church has the opportunity to step in. Set high standards for the young people in your church and don’t be afraid to tell them difficult truths.

Set an example. As mentioned before, hypocrisy is a huge reason as to why millennials are leaving the church. When a less-than-perfect pastor is telling them to get their act together, it can be hard to take seriously. By showing young adults the way Christ affects you and genuinely living to serve Him, your testimony will have a powerful impact on their view of the church. Be honest about how difficult it can be to follow Christ sometimes, but encourage them by sharing why it’s worth it to press on.

Show them the power of prayer. Millennials are facing challenges and issues society has never seen before and with that comes confusion and doubt. Make the benefits of prayer simple and clear to your young people. In the secular world prayer is often seen as an abstract force whose effect can never truly be felt. Personal testimonies are powerful and being vulnerable about your own experiences can speak volumes.

When it comes down to it, being genuine and honest with young adults can greatly impact their outlook on Christianity as a whole. By offering millennials the chance to take ownership of their faith, the church can facilitate the opportunity for actual life change and long lasting commitment.